Continuing on with the “FGHs” to help you survive the Christmas season. Yesterday, our focus was Facing Faulty Strategies. Today we move on to the letter G….
Give Gentleness and Grace
When I am stressed or feeling down, I desire kindness and understanding from those around me. But I often forget that they are in the midst of their own complicated feelings. My day filled with activities, crowds and expectations bumps up against theirs which can lead to snide comments, nasty looks, and demands for what we desire.
But what if I give to others what I want? I desire (and need!) gentleness and grace -- just like they do. I don’t always want to give others what I need, but when I choose to offer words of encouragement and kindness, something freeing happens. Emotional generosity changes the scene and creates an opportunity for my spirit and theirs to be lifted.
I love the way Jesus explains this concept to His followers: “Don’t pick on people, jump on their failures, criticize their faults—unless, of course, you want the same treatment. Don’t condemn those who are down; that hardness can boomerang. Be easy on people; you’ll find life a lot easier. Give away your life; you’ll find life given back, but not merely given back—given back with bonus and blessing. Giving, not getting, is the way. Generosity begets generosity.” (Luke 6:38-39 Msg)
Give gentleness and grace today. When we give what we ourselves need, we may receive it in return.
Grace and peace to you,
Sharon
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